1.He's Chasing Someone Else.[The white whale theory]
If you've just met him, who knows who else is in his life? I have definitely let a lot of girls go by while I've been fixated on "the ultimate girl". It's a fact: guys enjoy the chase. Some guys even enjoy just the chase. So that uninterested or elusive girl that he's chasing becomes his "white whale". If you have gone out with him a few times and things just don't seem right, he may be chasing a girl or two on the side and if he ever catches her that will really complicate matters.
2. He's Very Focused...on everything but love
The years beyond college or secondary get very complicated. Suddenly responsibility falls into your lap. You're paying time, paying for fun, and paying for the food you eat. Plenty of guys love to go out and meet girls but, depending on the stage of their lives, they may only want to meet and date lightly. Sometimes things at work are going really well you're close to a promotion, or they are going really badly you have a horrible boss, or you're afraid you're going to be let go. Who knows what's going on in people's lives when we meet them? While a meeting or date may seem amazing at one moment, it might just be a temporary thing to keep that person away from what they must focus on at that time in their lives. You might say: well, if they are going through a hard time, maybe I came along at the right time to help them out. Be careful of this because while you may help them out of their tough times, that might be all you are to them and they will move on without you when they are in better shape.
3. You're a friend
Girls, beware: sometimes we can't tell when you're interested in us. When I was in college/secondary, my best girlfriend told all my classmates that she liked me, and made them swear not to tell me. They actually kept the secret pretty well for a while. But when I finally found out, I was completely blind-sided and I only thought of her as a friend from day one. One of my best buddies from college/secondary is notorious for ignoring the fact that a girl might like him. He's met a lot of girls that he immediately puts into the "friend" group, and goes out with them frequently, while (at least to me) it's fairly obvious that she's interested in more. I have a history of losing touch with every girlfriend or girl I've been intimate with. It has made me very nervous to escalate things beyond friendship because past intimacy has caused girls that I could have been friends with forever to be out of my life. Guys value friendship just like girls do and they can get nervous to take the next step.
So girls , how do you lose your boy? =]
And beware how's your boy behave =)
S: busy busy ! 12 hours to prelim ! i hate it ! memorise you will update after prelim , sorry !
me or him ?- -
Monday, July 28, 2008 // 7/28/2008 08:15:00 PM
HELLO !!!!! Yesterday went town with LILI . Watched P2 with her , although was nc16 , but i think should be rated m18. So many gross scenes. Sorry , if i hardly blog . Last friday just got my N level chinese oral , the passage was alright , just only have 3 or 2 unknown words (only for me) , the conversation question was ' what's good about your friend ' and ' what's good about you ' =] . Quite satisfied with my performance . One more day to my prelim , headache ah!!! Good news was , my art coursework was delayed till to next thursday ! yeah ! P2 was something like vacancy and the stranger . But it's more gross than those movie , the idiotic used the car , banged till the stomach's intestine come out ! Finger nails cracked . Rated 3/5 stars =]
How's your poly life?
doubts- -
Saturday, July 26, 2008 // 7/26/2008 07:42:00 PM
HELLO!!!
Finally i got time , to blog !!!
But i had very limited time to blog.
Later still have to draw , colour, draw !
Left with 2 days , i got to pass up all my mounting boards and my final piece.
can i finish it ? =(
Today new paper was saying , three singaporeans quited their job just to hunt him !
Are going for money or just save the country ?
If you want to test what's your heart is thinking ?
Hello ! A short update =) Currently still busy with my art coursework. Today mdn su gave us , the prelim art exam paper . Need to 5 , A3 size drawings . So i just introduce some new music =].
Just got my ibank keychain today , i can transfer funds online next time , how convenient man !
My bloody big dragon , of my canvas art board . 3 or more days to finish it .=[
Although i'm busy , but i still cam-whore =)
Busy ? but i still can miss you =]
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Tuesday, July 22, 2008 // 7/22/2008 07:53:00 PM
HELLO ! Gonna update for a short while. Got to CHIONG my tuition homework ! Yesterday was Racial Harmony day. Ou school get to wear some ethnic costume .
So let see the pictures !
I missed him a lot.
happiest girl in the world- -
Sunday, July 20, 2008 // 7/20/2008 08:15:00 PM
BUSY BUSY BUSY!
ART ART ART !
SORE EYE SORE EYE !!!!!
CAUTION :LONG POST!
I had not update for two days . Friday , bloody sore eye , so didn't went to school. Afternoon me and lili accompanied hailun to buy her new phone at Chinatown . Hailun heard there was sharp brand phone , she thought was unique , very less people owned it . But chinatown didn't have it ! too bad for hailun ! Therefore we went shopping !!!we three , bought a bag and a tanktop. subsequently went Bugis , thought we can catch at 6.15 , but we're late .
Funny thing here , listen ! I thought Bugis street will sell , indian and chinese costume , and hailun wants to buy it , to wear it on monday for school's racial harmony day. As some small shops sell those ' i love singapore ' t shirt and don't know what race costume . But there only sell chinese costume and it's quite expensive ! Too bad , hailun didn't buy it , and went on shopping again !
Saturday , morning went Art supplementary till 12 . Went back home get changed and meet up lili and her bf . Following debra reached , and went to lot 1 . Catched ' the dark knight'
I'm scared of the joker's face ! Especially when the joker put knife in somebody's mouth , i subsequently used jacket or close my eyes .The dark knight was a long long movie ! 2 hours plus or 3? Quite dragging , but joker's plan in the movie was brilliant ! Rated 2.5/5 stars !
They are some new chinese pop songs or new album , which i liked , and i like to share with you all.
Thirdly , BY2 . I think you all don't know them . they're not very popular in singpore. But they're singaporean ! they are twins. They had released album in early july . They had a song , was quite popular in mtv .Their album talked about , they're 16 , too early to enter any relationship and easily get hurt.. blah blahblah..
And their new ablum was 16未成年.
A song form BY2 , i love it alot ! If you went to site , listened and want it , can get it from me =]
Judas has his poly life. And Winnie having N level life . Both were busying doing their own activity.
They have not meet up for months .Untill............ One day Sharon called Judas to teach her physic . On that day , Winnie thought she could not make it . Because it's around mid year examination , she needs to study as much she could . So Winnie and her tuition buddies had 5 hours of tuition . And the tuition made Winnie delayed her time to meet up her friend . Opposite , Winnie reached before Judas . Throughout the period , Winnie and Judas . They did not talk to each other. They simply just looked at each other , and smiled . Every little things , which Judas did , Winnie had memorise it.
to be continued..
Memorise you , will update weekly , on sunday .
i missed your birthday wish .- -
Wednesday, July 16, 2008 // 7/16/2008 08:42:00 PM
Hellooooooooooooooooooo! Anybody missed me ??????? Sorry , didn't blog for 3 days. Have been very busy nowadays.
sunday , we didn't have tuition , therefore SHOPPING ! Bought lots of things that day ! And we went Fish Therapy at IMM. Fishes fighting for themselves , to eat up your dead skins . I felt so itchy throughout the whole process ! Xuan le said , it felt like massaging you feet. BUT to me , really really like hundreds of fishes crawling your feet ! Darn itchy! Thereafer , went Plaza sing's spotlight .
Monday , was tired and didn't have much time to use com . Had maths and physic test .
Tuesday , was doing almost half a day . From 10.30 to 4 . Had half hour break . Only this few hours , i only painted two castles. Had tuition at night , such a exhausting day!
Today , went school with a sore eye =[ Lili said i looked so pale. But i sleep so early everynight . i slept at 11 plus man! Why early in the morning , i'm already so tired ? Had chinese test , was so tough !
Gonna go relax myself on the sofa , and watch tv , bye !
xuan le
S: i missed the conversation that i with you ,das.
I hoped- -
Sunday, July 13, 2008 // 7/13/2008 12:58:00 AM
Hello!
Tell you guys , i'm playing neopets , right now ! I know , it's darn childlish , but i love playing CHEAT ! Watched 2 movies in a row today . Watch red cliff with hailun , hellboy with hong kah cliques . Had so much programs this week , don't even have the time , to sit down , revise or do my work. HAI!
Red cliff. Was darn nice ! But i think they keep on budget in this movie , maybe they the next episode more be more exciting ? But yahoo.com.sg says , this movie costed US$80 MILLION ! Is the most expensive Asian-financed film to date. Zhu ge Liang (Takeshi Kaneshiro) , was so humorous in this movie ! He so cute cute CUTE !!!! I'm going insane . lin chiling , had very little scenes in this movie , BUT shows a small sexy part of body , which is her stomach , when she was talking to Zhou Yu (Tony Leung) . Vicky Zhao Wei , in this movie was a princess of don't know which part of china [i forgot the name] , act almost like wang zhu ge ge .Rated 5/5 stars ! One word'Nice '!
Hellboy 2 the golden army . Was quite nice . Starting the tooth fairy part , i'm scare . The slot which i watched for hellboy , was full house . Bought the ticket around 7 plus , but the movie starts at 9.30 already left a few rows in the front . Watched with the head , looking upwards , maybe my height it's unsuitable for the chair at Jurong entertainment shaw , made me felt so tired by looking upwards ! Rated 3/5 stars! As the seats was too front !
S: i hoped , forever you wouldn't know , i love you.
happy happy Happy!- -
Friday, July 11, 2008 // 7/11/2008 09:30:00 PM
I felt so contented today !!!!! HE WISHED ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY! If you want to know more , can come and ask me =) It's so sweet of him ! One word to summarize the day , 'HAPPY'!
all about sandy.- -
Thursday, July 10, 2008 // 7/10/2008 10:43:00 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MYSELF !!! Finally turns 16 , when the clock reached 12.am . Went to school with a rainy day . Classmates don't believe , today is my birthday ! Birthday , still tell off by mdn ma . I just pronounced wrong , one chinese word ONLY ! I should not elaborate so much , today is my birthday , i should be happy ! But i really can't stand mdn ma high expectation . Today mr royston low was so cute . Asked , whose birthday today . Then i said , me ? mr low: O , i see . That's why yesterday , you keep counting down la. End conversation. During art , YANJUN asked me , what present do i liked? or what do i need ? But i don't need anything . But after a few seconds , i recalled . My donation ! Then yanjun donates me $8 . Rich guy ! rich guy !
After school , went K box . Thanks k box , prepared the birthday stuff and cake for me . There was a crew from K box , i think , he behaves like mr bean ! Everytime he saw me , he sings happy birthday song to me !
I should not talks so much , here pictures ! erm , memorise you , will update weekly , due to i'm having n level , need to prepare , sorry ! All kinds of party stuff from k box. A gift from cassandra , faceshop mask.A gift from mei , pencil case from momo house.
for me only .all sorts of k box voucher . And one free mary chia , shoulder and back massage voucher.thanks k box!
A free cake from k box ! thanks . [black forest]
lalalala ~
bao lian ? hao bao , please .
Thanks k box ! Love you !
so focused .
peichi , soo zhen and peijuan .
Another black forest cake .
My favourite red chilli crab . Tell you one sercret , i never remove the crab's shell by myself before ! When i was in primary school , my maid removed for me . sec 2 wore braces , maid removed for me . Sec 3 still wearing braces , this time was mummy peel for me .Today , meimei helped me peeled for me !
mummy very hungry hor .
I knew my background was so messy , AND my daddy got wear pants , okay ! But is f.b.t , so gay !
mei mei
like mother , like daughter =]
Thanks yovonne , weitong , shirley , luan ting , lifah , minhui and jovell for the wishes !
S: i think he had forgotten my birthday . Hai !
s: 15 mins more , my birthday is over !
my birthday- -
Wednesday, July 9, 2008 // 7/09/2008 08:19:00 PM
4 more hours to my birthday !
Was having my nap just now , and i overslept , i should be waking up at 7 , but i rose up at 8 .
Therefore i cna't update memorise you.
i will give a short update for today.
Wish HE will remember my birthday.
satisfy her needs.- -
Monday, July 7, 2008 // 7/07/2008 03:55:00 PM
HELLO !
sunday , 6 july .
Meet Daddy's sister , cousins and nephew .
To celebrate my birthday in advance , because aunt have to travel oversea on my birthday . Went to my favourite crystal jade , to have my breakfast , their lunch .
Thereafter , went causeway to meet up , peichi and debra .
Thought i'm the last one who reach , but not =).
when soo zhen reached , went up to the theatre to buy drinks , snacks .
Watched ' the strangers ''The strangers'
This movie made you felt , you're the one , who in the scene. No comment , for strangers's sound effects , scary man ! Alike the movie in 2007 , vacancy . There was 3 , psycho , disturbs and kill them. But luckily one , survive . Rated 5/5 SCARY !
Today , was gek hong's birthday .
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !
I'M NOT BECAUSE SHE WAS ONCE JASPER'S GF , I DON'T WANT TO GO !
GET IT CLEAR , SOMEBODY!
DEBRA
PEICHI
SOO ZHEN
Satisfy her needs , my friend.
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// 7/07/2008 03:36:00 PM
String 23 . Memorise you , sandy leong .
When they're go their way back home . Judas , jordon , marcus and jaeden went to Sentonsa . In winnie's mind , it's just few days with Judas , satisfied her will .She will not the times with judas , especially judas noted down winnie's birthday . Hoped Judas wouldn't forget winnie's birthday . This year , Winnie just wished Judas will wish her happy birthday , there's no need presents , a small wishes from him , will be good . After those day with judas , they have not meet up for a time . Until........
to be continued ...
i hate Nth terms !!!- -
Saturday, July 5, 2008 // 7/05/2008 10:32:00 PM
FLU FLU FLU ! Made me felt so sick today ! Almost can't wake up for tuition . Tuition teacher overslept today . Therefore started the tuition at 4.30 .
12 to 4.30 , was so booooooooring ! Sleep , watch movie , eat maggie , read newspaper . During tuition , was doing Nth terms for number patterns . Tuition buddies did correctly and much more faster than me [ tuition buddies were , debra and sheeyee]. Felt very depressing , when everybody did it ! Found the Nth's formula , and you're much much slower then them . Almost cried when i think abstrusely , and can't get the solution of nth's term. Saw some shocking news today , can't believe it ! He is such a scoundrel !
I missed when we were in sec 3 ! when i was wearing braces >.<
Nervous , stress . Finally i'm relieved!- -
Friday, July 4, 2008 // 7/04/2008 09:52:00 PM
Hello , i'm back home with flu and cough ! Many things happened today. Firstly during maths lesson. When everybody got back their maths paper , only mine and shamini's maths paper were gone no way , can't find it . For cassandra's case , when didn't the mop test , therefore no paper. Felt very frustrated , when everybody got back their paper , and looking at their , what they had done wrong . Thought of classmates may kept my paper , making me felt worried , but not. I studied the paper , but didn't know my marks . Hai!!
Today had my N level english oral . I was the first one , who took it. Felt super nervous ! How i wished , i'm not the first one . Disadvantages was , had to wait till 3 pm , then they will release you. Advantages was , faster relieve ypur nervousness ! My read aloud was about flood , rescuing people , picture discussion was a few labourers help a old man from the flood ? Conversation , was ' what things caused fire in a house' , ' what to prevent it ' and lastly , ' are you willing to a civil defence servant ' . There's a phone below , is very chio !!!!! Costed around $800 plus . How i wish , i can get it =(
Thanks lili for this pengin water tank . This is my advance birthday present =)
s: how i wished , you'll be there , when i needed you so much .
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Thursday, July 3, 2008 // 7/03/2008 08:15:00 PM
Happy Birthday to casandra !!!
Nothing much happened yesterday .
But after eaten cas's birthday cake.
Today i had a sore throat !
It hurts a lot.
After school , i have to buy , herbal tea .
After drinking , went fruit juice store to buy a mixture of star fruit and lime.
Heard from auntie , star fruit cures sore throat.
But it's taste a bit weird.
Today at art class , i spraying glues to my art work.
